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It's all your fault

 How many times do you hear it and tell it to your spouse. Some of the clever ones - like me may not tell it loud. But the feeling is always there.
   Let us give take some examples. The dress you are wearing is not clean. Spouse did not wash it properly or did not instruct the maid to wash it cleanly. You do not have a clean pressed shirt. She is too eager to put the clothes for washing. But never irons.  Why should she wash it so frequently? And after all, who will buy the detergent?. Her dad?
  On the other side, your dress is not so nice looking. He did not come with you to buy the dress, so you were all alone and bought something which is not so nice. Or even worse, he came with a long face and was unresponsive.
   You are having problems at your office. What else could be the reason? You had a fight at home. So you were irritable. And started a fight. With the boss! If only your spouse had not fought with you at home, all these difficulties would not have arisen.
    Your vehicle is having starting trouble. Your spouse will not take it to repair. He says you should learn to be independent. But where do you have time? Why can't he be more co-operative?
   So your list (my list as well ) can grow on and on and on. It does not? You do not blame your spouse ? Either you are a very good lair or  are an exception to the community called married people. Hats off to you!
  

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