When you want to write a blog - atleast a good blog you need a target. As in bali ka bakra. Why am I searching all over the world for a blog subject when mai hoon ha.
Today with my reference, I can tell you why it is not so bad to be a stay at home mom. I have been on and off jobs many times may be because I did not take jobs too seriously. You don't take anything seriously said mom. And always I felt the other side is greener which may not be true.
Let us start with what happens in the morning. In the morning now I can get up late at 7. But of course I have to get up 4.45, wake up son, feed him and send him to tution and school. After that I can again sleep and wake up at 7.
When I was working woman , I used to prepare breakfast, prepare lunch boxes, serve hot dosas and tea and then get ready and run. Now I prepare breakfast, prepare lunch boxes, serve hot dosas and tea and period. No more work. Even the preparation of breakfast is not so tedious because of the anticipation of freedom after I send all these people away for the day.
Earlier I used to sit in a corner infront of a computer whole day (and used to play writers blox and check mail alternatively) Now I can sit anywhere, anyway, wearing anything even a nightie (which I wear, everyday) and spend the whole day watching tv soaps. So many times.
Earlier at lunch time , I used to eat cold unfriendly chitranna with unfriendly colleagues talking and gossipping. Now I can eat hot food (Many days I don't heat the left over food. But I can if I want to) enjoying it with TV.
When it rains in the evening, earlier I used to drive at 20kmph, drenched, shivering, afraid that is my dress becoming transparent, let me stop and wear my jacket , and again shivering because the jacket is no match for Bangalore rain, again afraid that which of this water puddles is a pot hole and which is not. But now I can prepare a hot cup of tea, and enjoy the rain from far.
So I think I should my enjoy my freedom, instead of grumbling
Today with my reference, I can tell you why it is not so bad to be a stay at home mom. I have been on and off jobs many times may be because I did not take jobs too seriously. You don't take anything seriously said mom. And always I felt the other side is greener which may not be true.
Let us start with what happens in the morning. In the morning now I can get up late at 7. But of course I have to get up 4.45, wake up son, feed him and send him to tution and school. After that I can again sleep and wake up at 7.
When I was working woman , I used to prepare breakfast, prepare lunch boxes, serve hot dosas and tea and then get ready and run. Now I prepare breakfast, prepare lunch boxes, serve hot dosas and tea and period. No more work. Even the preparation of breakfast is not so tedious because of the anticipation of freedom after I send all these people away for the day.
Earlier I used to sit in a corner infront of a computer whole day (and used to play writers blox and check mail alternatively) Now I can sit anywhere, anyway, wearing anything even a nightie (which I wear, everyday) and spend the whole day watching tv soaps. So many times.
Earlier at lunch time , I used to eat cold unfriendly chitranna with unfriendly colleagues talking and gossipping. Now I can eat hot food (Many days I don't heat the left over food. But I can if I want to) enjoying it with TV.
When it rains in the evening, earlier I used to drive at 20kmph, drenched, shivering, afraid that is my dress becoming transparent, let me stop and wear my jacket , and again shivering because the jacket is no match for Bangalore rain, again afraid that which of this water puddles is a pot hole and which is not. But now I can prepare a hot cup of tea, and enjoy the rain from far.
So I think I should my enjoy my freedom, instead of grumbling
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