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I was looking at a facebook group for Linux - the open source operating system. One unlucky person posted a question asking what is Linux. There were many comments saying it is love, it is an animal, it is washing powder, chips. One member said outright "go sell your laptop". They were ridiculing the person and enjoying it.

So the question is why do we ridicule others? It makes us feel happy. Why? Because we feel that we are entertaining others. Do we realize that our joke is hurting the other person? Of course we do. And we do not mind. By ridiculing the other person we are telling ourselves and others that see I am being so witty.

And when we do that, we feel superior.

There is another situation where we feel superior. Compassion. When we show sympathy towards those who are less fortunate than ourselves, we feel good. Again the underlying feeling is we feel superior.

So folks, please use sympathy rather than ridicule to show your superiority. Because it is less hurtful.


P.S. All these opinions are my own. And I am no expert in psychology. Disclaimer :)
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