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Most of our problems have really simple solutions. But we tend to ignore them and instead keep crying mommy....

Some trivial example here. I was having severe cold and cough. I kept grumbling, crying and lying down for 2 days. Then I just took a cough syrup and see now I am back at blogger. And because of cold, my tongue was tasteless and I wanted to eat crisp and spicy fried food. Then I realized a simpler solutions. I put a small piece of tamarind in my mouth. I felt equally better without the consequences like worsening of cough or acidity.

And did I tell you about how I paid 1600 rupees to IndusInd bank for a deficit account. Yes, I had an account, and there were not much funds. But they did not inform me until November. And by that time maintenance fees has gone upto 1600 (275 rs per month). When I went to close the account, the helpful lady told me that I have to pay that amount before I close the account. I paid cursingly.

And the best part of is today I got a second letter saying that the account is still in debit balance, and I should pay for the maintenance of the account. I got really upset. But again, the simple solution was I called the lady and she told me she has closed the account and sent me the confirmation mail.


So a note to myself. Most of the times we keep looking at the problem instead of searching for solutions. We keep wailing and feeling victimized instead of getting up (and blogging ;-) ) It is like when God (or whoever else ) sends us problems, he also sends the solution in next packet. We often do not notice this next packet.

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